learning to let go..

all the good people out there..(i'm sure you are all good,deep deep inside ur heart and soul,im sure u'll find the better u..)

LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING..

it's always about love when it comes to me..or life..well, what else...maybe i'll write about food next time..when i have the mood...

well, love alone is never enough..you should know this..whether it's an unrequited love, unpassionate love..having the third person..the bitch..the he-bitch..the backstabber..or maybe having someone,your family against your love..ah..the forbidden love..that's the word..in this era, love alone would not survive..you need security..you need reassurance for whoever that you're going to marry will provide you with security..money,protection and so on..well, i maybe am still a teenager who you would assume that i know nothing about love..but, i've have my fair share of heartbreaks and feeling like, what i think is love..whether it's because i was bored with that guy, or that guy was bored with me, or having difference backgrounds..all are heartbreaking,being the dumper or the dumpee..well, heartbreaks for the dumpee is usually harder and horrifying. and my experience as the dumpee is much higher..if love alone is enough, then all of this feelings like getting bored with one another, or having difference backgrounds would not matter at all..but in this real harsh reality, it does..maybe u can say,just to be positive that that is not love..what i'm talking about here is not love because love is true and forever..i feel that love is a subjective matter..it can have different meaning to different people. i still think that what i've experienced is love, for those feelings made me feel like i was flying high in the air or made my life more brighter. it is love, but it just didn't last.

THE BREAK UP

the hardest part of falling in love.this is the part where u fall for real.no clouds, no prince charming to save you. only you can save yourself, not ur mom,ur dad,ur friends and mostly not ur lover.i mean ur once upon a time lover.
the moment it happen, u cried and then u laugh..the next morning u open ur eyes, u realise what has really happened..u lost someone that for all u know could be the better half of u..u cried and cried until there are no more tears left.u cried until ur heart can't bear it anymore. u cried for weeks, months or maybe years..u hope that ur lover would come back to u, that everything would be better even it has been months..u want to let go but u couldn't find the strength to let go because deep in your heart u r afraid that, that person is the one u r meant with..if u let go, all hope is lost..some say another girl or another guy can be the cure for ur sadness..anger,hate can be the remedy for ur pain..but how long does it last?will it really guarantee you a happiness that last...i say, it won't because only time can cure ur pain and ur sadness..only time can erase the memories u had with ur loved ones..all u gotta do is be strong for yourself, for the people around you..no matter how hard or how hurting the pain is, u just have to get through it and smile like it has never happened..i believe that if u kept on lying about ur feelings, then it'll be real..you'll be happy for real..letting go is tough but u gotta do it somehow because after letting go, happiness is just within your reach..one shouldn't look back and reminisce about the past, but he should look forward and never look back again,forever..just remember that everything happens for a reason..if it was meant to be then that person will come back to u..never hold back ur tears, but just let it out..